1.       Use the N-word only when discussing it in its historical context.   Its foul history disables its use as a “term of endearment.”   Ask yourself, how often is it used violently or to describe negativity?

2.       Build up your personal level of self-respect, dignity, and pride because when you feel empowered, you will want to and can share that empowerment with others.

3.       Seek knowledge and empowerment through self-educating regularly.   You command respect by your actions – not by telling people they ought to respect you.

4.       Use Brother and Sister (or Sir, Madam, Miss, Beloved) regardless of the situation or environment – whether it is pleasant or hostile.   Kindness typically disarms negativity.

5.       Take note of how and when it’s used in your space (public and private) – and respectfully, kindly, and with love ask that...